People who are very lonely often over-apologize for things
they think they've said wrong or just for being present in a
certain place.
Frequent apologizing is an anxious tendency
that stems from feeling like you don't fully belong. Very lonely
people worry that they're bothering other people, so they
apologize for taking up too much space.
Unless we're
purposefully hurting or demeaning other people, we have a right to
share space with them. Very lonely people display their discomfort
with taking up space by saying they're sorry, when really, they
don't have anything to say sorry for.
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