Friendships thrive on balance, with give-and-take being the name of the game. But with a one-sided friend, everything becomes about their needs and their crises. They expect you to show up and listen, but they’re suddenly too busy when you need them. Giving someone like this a second chance usually reinforces the cycle. They may promise to be more present, but the same imbalances tend to show up when the dust settles. Give your time to people who offer mutual support.

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